We finally have money for wedding, he wants to spend on car, advice?

I'd come rite out & ask him what happened to wanting money so he could marry you. I can't blame you for how you feel after being told one thing, then to have this totally "spring up" out of no where on you! Don't hold it in, come rite out & ask him what his plans are & why now the sudden complete change of heart about wanting to get married with only money being the issue. See what he has to say about it. See IF he honestly was serious all the time about even getting married or since it was a money situation, now it's not, he's had a sudden change of heart. I'd want all the cards laid out on the table & want to know just what's the truth. Say what you mean, mean what you say...the best to you, honey...:)